If you were in Vegas, and knew the odds of winning a particular game was 1 in 10,000 – how much money would you put down? Would you put down $7 billion? That’s how much money we have been spending on just travel alone related to youth sports in the country. The odds of a […]
How Long Can A Marriage Survive Without Kissing?
Can you imagine kissing your spouse for 58 hours, 35 minutes and 58 seconds? According to the Guinness Book of World Records, a couple did just that in 2013. I’m betting that this couple wasn’t married with kids. They were probably dating or newlyweds at best. Kissing during that time is so passionate and romantic. Attractions are […]
Is All Sex Created Equal?
Check out my new Adidas. I got a really good deal for it. That isn’t Adidas. It says Adidos. It’s a fake, bro. This situation has happened to me on more than one occasion, especially living as a teenager in Taiwan where imitation “brand-name” products were plentiful. Imitation is all around us — clothing, shoes, products and […]
Yada – One of the Most Important Words for Your Marriage and Sex Life
“Daddy, where do babies come from?” If you have kids, at some point, inquisitive young minds may ask you this question. Fortunately, my oldest daughter is only 2 years old and this is the farthest thing from her mind. When she does ask, however, I might go “pastor” mode on her and refer her to […]
4 Questions to Break the Ice and Awkward Silences with Students
“Hey welcome to the ministry! What’s your name? “Bob” “Cool. Nice to meet you, Bob. So what grade are you in? What school?” “Woodbridge. 9th grade.” “Awesome. Glad you’re here.” (mutually awkward nods and smiles) -awkward pause- “Aight! Well, let me introduce you to Jim. He’s super cool.” (and much better at conversing than me!) […]
Passion or Position- 5 Questions to Help You be Passion Driven
“I can’t wait to get out of Jr. High Ministry and be the pastor of the college ministry.” This was my attitude even before I began working my first job as a Jr. High Pastor. I never saw myself in youth ministry before because I felt like I couldn’t really relate to that younger crowd, especially […]
2014 Year In Review – 10 Major Issues Impacting the Church
As we are attempting to keep our 2015 New Year’s Resolutions, do we even remember what our resolutions were last year? If you have short-term memory like me, it’s important to take moments to stop, pause, and reflect on events that have happened in your life, your community, and our world. As 2014 will start […]
5 groups of people who need your love on Christmas Day
Korean Barbecue on Christmas day probably doesn’t sound like your typical Christmas meal, but that’s how I spent one Christmas as an “orphan” college student. With my family living in another country, I was planning on spending Christmas Day just like any other day. But my friend’s family invited me over for Christmas dinner and […]
How to Find Your Purpose (Sweet Spot)?
Whack! The sound of the sweet spot. That’s how my friend who was helping me with my golf swing, described the beautiful sound you hear when you hit the golf ball perfectly. When your swings force comes down at the right angle with the perfect momentum and everything is aligned – it creates a deeply […]
5 Easy Steps to be a Better Leader this Week
Have you seen Staple’s easy button? When you press it, a recorded voice says, “That was easy.” The concept is that at the push of a button, Staples will make your life easier and better. I wish there was a button that I could press to make me a better leader, don’t you? I believe […]